Group on Signal Hill

Group on Signal Hill
Back row: Avery, Kelsey, Ainsley, Patrick, Wylie, Erin, Ethan, Janiel, Larissa: Third Row: Tekowa, Anna, Audrey, Jerard, Andrew, Carl, Allie; Second Row: Elise, Aimee, Vara, Carolyn, Melissa, Morgan, Liz, Erica, JR; Front Row: Savitri, Brianna, Sharon, Lindsay, Andrea

Welcome to Our Blog

WELCOME TO OUR BLOG

As anyone who has participated in this program will attest, there are no words or pictures that can begin to adequately capture the beauty of the scenery or hospitality of the people in Cape Town. Therefore, this blog is merely intended to provide an overview of the program and a glimpse at some amazing adventures and life-changing experiences had by the students and staff of this program who have traveled together as co-educators and companions on the journey. As Resident Director and Faculty Advisor since 2008 it has been a privilege and honor to accompany an incredible variety of wonderful UConn students to a place we have all come to know and love.

In peace, with hope, Marita McComiskey, PhD


23 April 2013

Larissa on giving love


"I AMis such an amazing film and what an amazing way to look at things.  I constantly struggle between viewing having obscene amounts of money as simply ridiculous and more trouble than good, and viewing having obscene amounts of money as a fantastic opportunity to be able to help those in need.  I guess it all depends on what this rich person actually decides to put it towards.


It has been shown in science that there are so many physiological effects of love- we need to base more of what we do off of these findings.  Sometimes the problems of our world seem overwhelming, and perhaps because we don’t know where to start, we don’t start.  But we need to.  We need to start.  We need to start changing if we want our world to change. 

It blows my mind to think about the human heart and how we truly are compassionate beings. Something in the way our society has grown (or shrunk down to) has told us that we don’t need to care- that we need to focus on ourselves and do what is best for us individually.  But maybe what’s best is to help others.  Maybe the human race is not supposed to function individually, but as a group, as a whole, as a unit. 
No matter how bitter the person, everyone feels a sense of pride, happiness, usefulness, and motivation to do better when they help someone else.  When you are a compassionate human being, your mood changes and your body scientifically responds that it is what you should be doing.

It makes me think of the numerous times I’ve been in a bad mood, then gone to work with my kids at school or at camp, and I’m automatically back in a good mood.  Helping them, and seeing their innocence is the motivation I thrive off of to do better in this world and to put in my fair share of love.
Larissa with children in her dance class in the after school program in Nyanga
Is it that much to ask, to love?  Love is one of very few things where you still gain while giving away. 
Give love and you will feel love

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