Group on Signal Hill

Group on Signal Hill
Back row: Avery, Kelsey, Ainsley, Patrick, Wylie, Erin, Ethan, Janiel, Larissa: Third Row: Tekowa, Anna, Audrey, Jerard, Andrew, Carl, Allie; Second Row: Elise, Aimee, Vara, Carolyn, Melissa, Morgan, Liz, Erica, JR; Front Row: Savitri, Brianna, Sharon, Lindsay, Andrea

Welcome to Our Blog

WELCOME TO OUR BLOG

As anyone who has participated in this program will attest, there are no words or pictures that can begin to adequately capture the beauty of the scenery or hospitality of the people in Cape Town. Therefore, this blog is merely intended to provide an overview of the program and a glimpse at some amazing adventures and life-changing experiences had by the students and staff of this program who have traveled together as co-educators and companions on the journey. As Resident Director and Faculty Advisor since 2008 it has been a privilege and honor to accompany an incredible variety of wonderful UConn students to a place we have all come to know and love.

In peace, with hope, Marita McComiskey, PhD


19 April 2013

Patrick's drive to be the best he can be


Best week yet/ possibly ever, and it didn’t really even include the first half of the week. The clinic oddly was not that busy this week, so I got to do some homework in between my patients. But I did get to remove some sutures and staples, do a couple burn dressings on kids, and learned how to give the oxygen mask to patients.  

On Tuesday night, we watched an interesting video (Mickey Mouse Monopoly) in Marita’s class on the race and sex behind most older Disney movies. It was very eye-opening, especially the conversation about how they affected some kids in our class’ lives growing up. I know I hardly talk about the classes, but I think it’s mostly because I have all these ideas being absorbed in but my brain moves way too fast to write them all down. But we have watched many films and had many discussions that have inspired me to think about a minor or possible double major in human rights. I know it would really make me a better/ more well-rounded person because I heard all of the UConn human rights teachers are amazing. I’m nervous, excited, and inspired to make this change at UConn.

Now for the weekend. After internship on Wednesday I got to go running with one of my coworkers and Kelsey. It was nice how she just invited us along with this big group of South African runners because we had mentioned once how we liked running. Then Thursday after class, 23 of us piled into a bus driven by Rashaad, one of our Orientation Drivers, and headed to Plettenburg Bay for the weekend. Shoutout to Melissa for organizing the whole trip because it was probably the best weekend of my life. We drove a lot on Thursday and got to our first hostel in the middle of no where. It turned out to be a  beautiful resort with double rooms and private bathrooms. Carl and I shared a house with Allie and Anna which was going to be good practice for when we EuroTrip together in two weeks! We only really slept there but the complex was immaculate.

We woke up the next morning and traveled to Outdshoorn where we went spelunking! Spelunking is another work for crawling through these huge old caves. The cave had a glow about it that made the whole thing very worthwhile. After about 90 minutes of adventure spelunking, we all go on the bus, stopped for lunch, and traveled to Knysna Elephant Reserve. We got to feed and play with elephants for an hour. Some people were scared but we all were relatively comfortable with them by the end. That night we went to a place called Mo’s for dinner. The food was really good and so was the live music. We stayed out late after dinner and listened to the music for a few hours. I feel like the guitarist knew we were American because he was playing Snow Patrol, Tom Petty, and ‘Sweet Home Alabama’. ‘Summer of 69’ came on and I remember the look on everyone’s faces as we thought about the lyrics ‘those were the best days of my life’. I love everyone so much and don’t want to leave at all.

After a fun night of hanging out with everyone, I woke up and did one of the best things i've ever done. I went skydiving! Someone’s alarm went off at 0545 that morning to shower and I was so uneasy I couldn’t fall back asleep until my alarm went off at 0630. Avery, Anna, and I got dropped off at the airport a little early and we just waited anxiously until people who worked there showed up. We were all honestly so nervous. Anna had decided the night before that she had wanted to do it so she was extra nervous but I give her credit for doing it. Anna and Avery went up in the plane together and came down together. They both absolutely loved it and were screaming about how awesome it was which didn’t make me any less nervous. I went after them and was shaking I was so scared. We got to 10,000 feet, the door opened, and the two instructors before me jumped. My turn came and my instructor was walking me back because I couldn’t do it myself. I put my feet on the wheel and jumped. I was in such an awe at where I was I think I blacked out for a second. He pulled the parachute after 33 seconds of going 209 km an hour and gave me the cords to steer where the parachute was going. It was a beautiful day so the view was perfect. We reached the ground and I started shaking really bad because I couldn’t believe I did it. I’m so glad I got to share this experience with Avery and Anna because they were so supportive and awesome the entire time.
Anna & Patrick at Skydiving adventure
The last thing I want to talk about was the talk Anna, Avery, and I had after our session. We were talking about how cool our lives were and how fast time moves. I remember Anna said ‘this very moment as I’m saying this will be a memory soon’. It really hit me how this whole trip, my entire college experience, my entire career will one day be a memory, so what is the point of wasting it by not improving yourself? I did something that day that made me get over a fear and made me a well-rounded person. Each day here and back home is so important the person I am and will be. It’s hard because  we will not remember the majority of the days of our lives here or in general. Making each day count for all its worth may sound corny, but it’s the only power each individual person really has. That could include giving back, appreciating time with good friends, doing something you never thought you would do, or just appreciating each day you’re given. This country, these people, and this atmosphere have given me such drive to be the best person I can each and every day. 
Patrick, Avery & Anna in front

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