Group on Signal Hill

Group on Signal Hill
Back row: Avery, Kelsey, Ainsley, Patrick, Wylie, Erin, Ethan, Janiel, Larissa: Third Row: Tekowa, Anna, Audrey, Jerard, Andrew, Carl, Allie; Second Row: Elise, Aimee, Vara, Carolyn, Melissa, Morgan, Liz, Erica, JR; Front Row: Savitri, Brianna, Sharon, Lindsay, Andrea

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As anyone who has participated in this program will attest, there are no words or pictures that can begin to adequately capture the beauty of the scenery or hospitality of the people in Cape Town. Therefore, this blog is merely intended to provide an overview of the program and a glimpse at some amazing adventures and life-changing experiences had by the students and staff of this program who have traveled together as co-educators and companions on the journey. As Resident Director and Faculty Advisor since 2008 it has been a privilege and honor to accompany an incredible variety of wonderful UConn students to a place we have all come to know and love.

In peace, with hope, Marita McComiskey, PhD


14 March 2013

Patrick painfully aware of his privilege


I finally had a hard week in Cape Town. I thought I was getting sick last week, and it ended up occurring in the form of a very painful mouth ulcer that made me stay home from work all week. I got to go to the doctor’s office on Monday which was kind of enlightening. It was in this nice house in the beautiful town of Claremont. The nice couches in the waiting area, the big room where the doctor worked, and the happy and overall clean staff drew almost polar opposites to the way that Tafelsig treats patients. 

Basically what happens is that patients at Tafelsig line up at 5:30AM every morning to get a good spot in line where they will then wait another several hours to be seen by a nurse or doctor. They wait this long only to be told they need to be referred or that the pharmacy doesn’t have what they need in stock. It’s a hard reality that these people need to face if they ever get sick at all so I definitely felt bad that I was receiving all of this private nice treatment. As stated in previous blog posts, I have felt guilty about everything I have been given. My parents tell me all the time how I shouldn’t feel bad about something I was born into. But nothing anyone can tell me can change the way I feel, so I wasn’t particularly happy that I got this special treatment. I did nothing to earn it, and this population of one million people living in Tafelsig did nothing to deserve what their lives have given them.

Regardless of all my conflicting thoughts, I would like to thank my housemates in this blog post because they had been so nice to me all week. I couldn’t talk, laugh, and could barely eat but they were so nice about leaving me alone when I needed to sleep or it was hurting very badly.

When I finally started to feel better, Anna, Allie, Liz and I went to our activist project in Nyanga to start painting the room. We also met with the carpenter where we discussed what he would be doing with the room. By the time we go to Nyanga this upcoming Friday, the room hopefully should be cleared of everything but the shelves and they will all be newly sanded and varnished. This statement is very hopeful. I just want this to go so well. I really don’t want this to be about me or the other UConn students helping out but about the kids of Sithembele Matiso and what they have a right to.

The rest of the weekend was fun as well. After going back to the school on Saturday to finish up what we hadn’t on Friday, a bunch of my friends and I had decided to go to a Korean Barbeque restaurant which was unbelievable. I don’t think anyone realized how much this had affected me. Not only was the food amazing, but I got to experience yet another culture within South Africa. The lifestyle of South Africa is awesome and fascinating, but the fact that they have such a distinct culture that doesn’t deter as a result of other countries’ influence is awesome.

That Sunday we also went to the most beautiful beach I’ve ever seen. The beach is called Camps Bay. It took a while to get there but was definitely worth it. After a fun minibus taxi ride with great music, we were there playing soccer with some local African kids and watching the Cape Argus Cycle Tour. This is a 110-km bike race that is named as one of the most scenic bike routes in the world. I had a great time hanging out with new friends and just relaxing for a day. I even won a cooler from a random prize drawing at the restaurant we went to for lunch.

This week started off really terrible and ended on a pretty good note. Now I just hope my mouth is actually healing..

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